Divorced? Needing a step by step plan that works? Are you tired of the circle game; the idea that they will come back, or maybe they will miss me? Clear that crap out of your head because that is not the case. Ya sure they might miss that pancake on Saturday Mornings or the way you laid their clothes out but please to think for one minute they are going to regret leaving you is absurd. The line was drawn in the sand and you have now crossed over it; divorce papers are signed and finalized. Get your head out of the sand and start seeing the bigger picture, yourself!
That is correct, it is your time to bloom and don't let that doubt in your head tell you otherwise. You have another chance at getting this life into something more than passay. Get your notebook, ipad or smartphone out let us explore that bucket list! You heard me correct, it is
now time to get you advancing on your future in this life, not the next time around. Get up get out there and experience what you were meant to experience. Start looking to the journeys ahead and leave the past where it lays.
Your list is a to do list, starting now! Don't waste another minute thinking about things that cannot be changed, get out there and change yourself. Experience the wild, crazy ideas you had before marriage settled you down. Find the you that has been masked into an "us" and get living "you" again. Don't tell me there is no "you"; because that is crap! It was "you" that attracted the "us" in the beginning so put yourself back together either it be yoga, dance, singing, instrumental or something else that inspires you to make a one time appearance every once in a blue moon and get on with it. Live for NOW; Not LATER!
We are not getting any younger, hate to bust your bubble, time is of the essence. Retire or take a sabbatical, either way get on with it before time has caught up to you and your kids have placed you in a group home or worse; they take your license leaving you stranded somewhere you never meant to be in the first place. Take a chance on you for a change, the best investment you can ever not efford to make!
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