A Creator Called Mom

To decide to create a life is an important part of humanity. We choose to form relationships that support one another's needs and dreams. While doing so, our minds connect with our chosen partners in ways that stump science and parents alike. Even the rebellious love stories have a time stamp connection.

To make another can come as a surprise or a promise. The concept on which creating life is simple enough to understand but never respected enough to cherish the act itself. Way too many of us are single parenting; that is shows our lack of responsibility for those we chose to create in our wake. Those little creations are given false hope, false securities, and false sense if responsibility. Only one is expected to carry such a task as rearing a new creation of themselves. It is difficult to be a responsible parent with two holding the rings much less one. Stronger are those who welcome the challenge with their own creators in the ring to give guidance and support. Stronger still are those who know the task at hand and look for other more complex options for their little creation, one with their moral values at hand and a good book in the other. What is said of those whose surprise was not wished for because they also did not respect the connection that was given at times others would say was, "well spent."  Each connection we choose to make is needing of the respect it should not have to ask for. Nor should the little creation ask for the respect once it is born. These are given at the time of indulgence and transformation at the time of the connection. Each connection has a feeling of need, want  and desire, Why not Cherish? If you cannot Cherish that space in time that you chose to connect, that time which you needed to feel, love, and want to become intimate; then why? Why not walk away? Why not find another responsible connection to insure your not creating, not abandoning, not harming another human creator.

So many faces I see, walking a path alone hoping they are being responsible enough. Why? Why not make sure you are cherished before connections are made, feelings are in place, and responsibilities are met? Have we as the creators lost our own dignity? Our own respect within human minds? Maybe this line of thinking is too complex for humanity. Maybe we should all stop.

Do humans realize what the end product is? Look around inside your towns and see the ones left behind. The homeless traumatized children who walk among the shadows, those that society has cast aside as drug addicts.  Look at them, walk alongside them, as I have listening to grievances and dashed dreams, for what? Because the idea of becoming a parent is a lot different then parenting itself.

Children that having just graduated decided to have a child, or worse yet the young have chosen to become pregnant like their mothers before them and those before them, creating a cycle that never stops. Keeps producing the problem society meets today with reluctant arms, through Job & Family Services. Then they want to feel entitled in life, reaching for the promises ignorant parents that have chosen to stop parenting gave them in a time of weakness. Really?

By fixing the problem, we as a society have to acknowledge that there is a problem. I would think looking at our youth, homeless, and the stillness of the towne.